Monday, December 9, 2019

A Note to Steve... UPDATE! O.O


 Well... this is getting interesting! I forgot to mention that the man who sent me the nice message, was someone that I had met on line last year. I forgot to mention it because I forgot all about that. I had been trying to get this guy's attention but was having no luck, we had emailed back and forth but he didn't seem that interested in me and eventually I let it drop. I remembered that we had sent online messages but I couldn't remember if we emailed.

 Fast forward to this fall and we figured out who each of us was. Even if I wanted to email him, I wouldn't know where to look. I responded yesterday on the mutual site we belong to. This evening I received an email that wasn't familiar to me. I could read the first few lines and realized who it was, it's my new friend. Wow, that really impressed me, that means he took the time to find my email from a year ago and to send another message, it means he was worried I wouldn't see the first message or maybe not take that message seriously, it means he was thinking about me yesterday and today. He is bisexual, he was married with kids (adults now), he still is similar to a straight guy in his thinking, so it feels pretty good for me tonight because when a straight-ish man is interested in you, it can seem cute and clumsy all at the same time.. but you know it. I'm not going to over think this, maybe nothing will come of this but it makes you feel like a kid again in a cool way... because that awkward kid in high school just got a note from an older boy and he's enjoying this.

8 comments:

Deedles said...

I'm not going to spoil your fun by mentioning serial killers, even jokingly :)

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Deedles, I know one of his neighbors so :p""""""

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

Bisexuals are fun.
Men who have been in straight relationships are fun.
There’s a certain adorable quality to the way they approach another man. And many of them can romance you like there’s no tomorrow. I’d give this one a chance.
And I need to read about it all.

Xoxo

Old Lurker said...

Awwwww. You have a stalker. How sweet.

I don't know why you are surprised, though. Doesn't everybody who sleeps with you fall desperately in love with you?

anne marie in philly said...

steven is singing this to his guy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KelraygLn2g

HuntleyBiGuy said...

It’s great that he still had your email. It means you made an impression on him back then. Maybe he wasn’t in a good place to follow up with you back then. I’m happy for you.

Jimmy said...

Enjoy it. You deserve it. :)

Dave R said...

.... a year.... very interesting.