Tuesday, September 29, 2020

The last obstacle.

  Today for the first time ever in my life, I came out to someone at work. I wanted to tell the people I'm close to. A perfect opportunity came up and I did it. I was reading an email to a coworker and there happened to be a picture of someone I dated. I said to him, "this is my friend, he is also my ex... do you understand what I'm telling you"?

 The guy was dumbfounded, he kept looking at the picture, I guess wondering why his brain wasn't seeing a woman. He turned red and was speechless, something not common for him lol. It was cute because I could tell he was struggling to be supportive and find the right words. Then he started talking rapidly from being nervous.

 After the initial shock wore off, then we had a good conversation. He asked a lot of thoughtful questions which tell me instantly he understands. He told me not to be nervous about telling another of our co-workers, because that guy's brother who he is close to is gay, I didn't know that. It was the end of the day and before he left, he thanked me for placing my trust in him. That's something I love about telling people, they feel honoured that I place my trust in them and it brings us a little closer.

Saturday, September 12, 2020

Change is stupid!

 I hate the new blogger format, less user friendly. I just lost a post I was writing, that didn't happen with the old format. Makes me want to quit permanently.

 September already, ugh! With covid and my personal drama, I missed my summer, I feel like I just woke up from an April dream and it's September already.

I'm taking the lazy way. Memes!!!

 Because I'm gay, you're welcome! ;)

 The only good Karen... hahaha! I love her!

 Seems to be the way for some people. I was reading a discussion about having an open relationship, I said I'm working on finding one guy, I can't even think about finding a second, third or forth!

 See... still gay, you're welcome part two!

 This is a big hit with some of the guys, I tell they have the sense of humour of a twelve year old! Hahaha!

 This one is for Debra, topless chicks! ;)

How I apologize to certain idiots lately.

That pesky gay thing again, the guy with the hat is mine... hands off! 

We had our first frost last night, it's 0 Celsius or 32 Fahrenheit, cold! Enjoy your weekend!