The roommate and I had our first argument three weeks ago. Apparently I'm not as funny as I think I am. Also I believe it to be a cultural difference, he is Mexican and I'm Smarty Pantsican. My humour can be a bit sarcastic and I like picking at people, one day I crossed the line and "POOF" hurt feelings. It was also revealed to me that it had been building for a long time.
Well anyway it's been smoothed over and I will be a little more cautious with what I say regarding how he may interpret things. He can be a jerk at times but he also does a lot of nice things for me. I on the other hand am a perfect roommate and he needs to realize that.
Just to be clear, we are just friends. We did get together a year ago but he didn't want anything serious so we became friends. I was worried about living together as he has an online temper, so as a test-run we went away for a few days together to Montreal.I had a great time with him, I decided to take him up on his offer and rent a bedroom. It turn out to be exactly what I needed, winter seemed to fly by and it's spring already. We made it!
Wow, it's been over a year since my last post. I guess I was hoping for things to be better in the world but unfortunately not. There have been a lot of changes and also no changes at all if that makes sense.
One thing different is that I am living in the city, I left the farm for the winter, I found it too isolated and lonely there. I'm renting a bedroom from a friend, he has to travel a lot so I'm often alone for weeks on end. I get a beautiful three bedroom condo to myself for the price of a bedroom. I'm not dating anyone and to be honest I'm fine with that. I have made a few gay friends and whenever we are not in a covid lockdown we get together as much as we
I know there has been a lot of sadness in the blog world over the last year. I would like to say things will get better but I don't really know what to say.
Lived most of my life hidden in the closet and suddenly realized, it's just not working! I started the process of coming out (way back in 2006) and wanted to write about it, hoping to meet people. My blog has shifted a bit now, sometimes gay issues, sometimes every day issues.