Monday, July 9, 2018
Playing hard to get.
Last night I was very frustrated with trying to meet guys. I never mentioned this to anyone because I didn't want to build on something that never happened but I was supposed to meet with a guy on Friday. Again it was a no go. At least this time the guy let me know he wasn't coming. However it was at the last minute, after I spent the afternoon getting ready, I was dressed and heading out to my car when I got the text. Yesterday I was getting disappointed with fake profiles when suddenly a younger guy in his thirties sent me a message.
Guy: Hello there. :)
Me: Hello back, lol.
At this point I was thinking to myself "please don't be an idiot because I have had my fill".
Guy: I'm so horny!
I just let out an "uuugh" because it was another idiot. There was a million things I wanted to say to him and all were what an idiot he was. That wouldn't be fair to someone just looking for sex, although my profile says I'm not interested in hooking up.
Me: Really? Seriously? Then for Pete's sake maybe you should go take a cold shower or something!
I figured that would be it, he either would stop or tell me off. Anyway I got a huge kick out of myself and was laughing at what I just said. Then he emails back.
Guy: Then maybe after you could warm me up!
Me: Ahh, I bet you say that to all the boys.
I guess he was surprised by resistance, he probably was used to either getting interest or turned down.
Guy: I really like red heads, they are cute.
Me: yes apparently I have become the latest fashion trend, we are all the rage now.
I suddenly could see there was some personality there. I shut him down politely, I told him that I never just hookup with a stranger, that I am not comfortable with that. He emailed back and said not to worry that he understood, which I thought was polite, unlike the usual silence I would normally get, so they are not all jerks.