Saturday, July 21, 2018
Human to Human Interface Accomplished.
Well... I didn't want any questions or be embarrassed if this didn't work out again so I wasn't going to mention this but I had arranged for another coffee date and I was hoping it wasn't going to be three strikes and you're out. This time the person was really determined to meet and that felt really good. I had wanted to meet this guy for a long time but he didn't seem interested, turns out the guy had lost his job and was scrambling to find another. Once he had that taken care of, he came looking for me, so that felt good.
I like a tall guy, I mean height has no bearing on who I would date but I do like my men tall. I am only about 5'8 so it's easy to be taller than me, at 6'2 he pressed my buttons immediately. As I arrived a little early, I saw him outside waiting for me, a good sign I felt. He was actually better looking in person than his pictures which is unusual, also it tells me that he is not hung up on looks. His eyes caught my attention, they didn't really show up in his photos but in real life you are drawn to them. I was nervous but worked hard to hide it. He was friendly and outgoing, easy to talk to. I was scanning for faults, one clear one is his obsession with his work but I can over look that. He did excuse himself to check his phone a few times, annoying but I understand the nature of the type of work he is in.
We have a lot in common, we have had a lot of the same experiences in life. We have a lot of the same outlooks on gay life, family and friends. The coffee date lasted over three hours so I think it went well, he gave me a warm hug before he left and we are keeping in contact. I am hoping to at least get a friendship out of this but to be honest I would like a lot more from this guy. I am not going to make too much out of this, life has given me reason for caution, we will see. Also it's really hard to post today since last night blogger keeps crashing and it's hard to stay on my train of thought when the site goes down every two or three minutes.
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24 comments:
Sounds yummy, except for that work obsession thing, but that's just me. Maybe because the job is new?
I like tall people, men or women. I have a couple of girl friends who are both over six feet tall. I'm always yelling at them to stop slouching and be proud! I'm five six myself, three inches shorter than Balder Half. Perfect for snuggling into that little divot behind his ear lobe. Mmmmmm!
I hope everything works out for you, Steven. Friend or more, it is still a win!
take it slow and see what develops.
Maybe he was nervous too - I mean blabbing on about his work. First meets are tough - see what happens, maybe even friendship to start. I’m not a great one for leaping not bed with any Tom Dick or Harry. Contrary to what you might think! Slow is better.
JP
I think taking it slow is the smart way to go, but this guy does indeed sound very promising. Good luck!
I'm happy for you. I hope this is the start of something really good for you.
Thank fuck for that!
Ditto what everyone says
Slow, enjoy have fun
Houston....we have contact.
Hopefully he will not be a dud. That he showed up and is breathing is already a great improvement over the last.
Oh, I'm so glad it went well!
I'm keeping my fingers crossed so there's an encore and more to follow.
Keep things light and casual, and let it evolve all on its own. Yay!!!
I too give out a cheer and hope something develops out of this. It's the definition of dating.
You've made my day!I hope it turns out to be everything you hope for.
Wow...first dates can be very extremely nerve wracking! Hope this develops into something more!
John Michael
Deedles, yes still a win even just a friend. Maybe if he makes lots of money, he will spend it on me!
Anne Marie, yes that's my plan, well also some handcuffs might help... yes? No? Lol
JP, I would never think about you jumping into bed unless someone left Oreo cookies in it!
Michael, that's what worries me, he sounds too good to be true.
RJ, I'm happy for me to lol. I do hope something comes from this.
John, at least this one didn't turn into a Mr Bean episode!
Maddie, if this works out, it's going to make our wedding very awkward.
Walter, I always listen to a man that knits!
Dr Spo, do you have any secrets for having someone hypnotized?
Thank you Christina, at least he showed up and that's a good start lol!
WOW!!! John Michael, hey buddy! Lol, you, me and Dr Spo are the senior citizens here! I missed you, I never thought I would see you back in blog land.
Good luck! Got my fingers crossed for you!
Thank you Debra, I appreciate that. :)
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