Saturday, July 21, 2018
Human to Human Interface Accomplished.
Well... I didn't want any questions or be embarrassed if this didn't work out again so I wasn't going to mention this but I had arranged for another coffee date and I was hoping it wasn't going to be three strikes and you're out. This time the person was really determined to meet and that felt really good. I had wanted to meet this guy for a long time but he didn't seem interested, turns out the guy had lost his job and was scrambling to find another. Once he had that taken care of, he came looking for me, so that felt good.
I like a tall guy, I mean height has no bearing on who I would date but I do like my men tall. I am only about 5'8 so it's easy to be taller than me, at 6'2 he pressed my buttons immediately. As I arrived a little early, I saw him outside waiting for me, a good sign I felt. He was actually better looking in person than his pictures which is unusual, also it tells me that he is not hung up on looks. His eyes caught my attention, they didn't really show up in his photos but in real life you are drawn to them. I was nervous but worked hard to hide it. He was friendly and outgoing, easy to talk to. I was scanning for faults, one clear one is his obsession with his work but I can over look that. He did excuse himself to check his phone a few times, annoying but I understand the nature of the type of work he is in.
We have a lot in common, we have had a lot of the same experiences in life. We have a lot of the same outlooks on gay life, family and friends. The coffee date lasted over three hours so I think it went well, he gave me a warm hug before he left and we are keeping in contact. I am hoping to at least get a friendship out of this but to be honest I would like a lot more from this guy. I am not going to make too much out of this, life has given me reason for caution, we will see. Also it's really hard to post today since last night blogger keeps crashing and it's hard to stay on my train of thought when the site goes down every two or three minutes.