Sunday, July 7, 2019
Very pro snuggling!
I was reading on line that gay people don't like cuddling or snuggling. Seriously... who writes this garbage, straight religious people or some bitter bar troll past their due date? I as a gay man declare that I love to cuddle, I love to snuggle. Nothing better on a Sunday morning after spending the weekend with a honey bunny, than having a little snuggle time together before getting up. Even better is when you are in a relationship with someone, that moment of intimate cuddling after having sex, it gives you that quiet connected feeling.
Maybe some gay people don't like it but this one does! I guess it doesn't fit the image of two strangers meeting and hooking up. I find a little cuddle time recharges the batteries. Seriously, what's wrong with a little couch cuddle while watching tv or something like that. When I think back to my last relationship, that was one of the things I loved, we were always snuggled up while watching tv, listening to music or reading something, it was automatic. Now go hug someone... preferably someone you know and love... I don't want you in trouble! Lol
Posted by Sooo-this-is-me at 10:13 AM
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I love to cuddle too. It's one of the things I miss most about being in a relationship. The weekend morning cuddle as day unfolds is magical.
It's odd (shocker) that as much as I love to hug, I'm not much of a cuddler. Neither is Balder Half. We cuddle for a quick minute right after, uh, you know and then turn to opposite sides of the bed. We have this need to breathe, heh. It's been working for nigh on 44 years, why fix it?
Richard, I also miss it, especially if we had been out from Friday evening to Saturday night, Sunday morning was quiet time together and we didn't have to be up too early. Sometimes the cuddling also let to morning sex so that was a bonus lol!
Are you not getting my emails buddy?
Deedles, some people are just not cuddlers and to each his/her own. It just irks me when I read "gay people think this way" or "gay people like (or don't like) this". Like every group, gay people have a range of likes and dislikes.
Where is this article?
You aren't spending your entire weekend online, I hope? Get outside and do something! (no, not necessarily on Grindr) I don't want you moping about how you spent all your time on the Internet this weekend.
Lurker, yes I was bad yesterday.... and so far today as well. There is no grindr out here lol, all they would have is bears near me and not the cute kind of bears... the kind that you run from.
Ok ok I'm going out, gee whiz.
Yeah, Stevie weevie, I know what you mean. I wasn't supposed to like country music, being Black and all. I was a closet listener for years. Ironically, I never cared for Charlie Pride. Too nasally. I've never heard that asinine statement about gay people before. It's stupid!
Sorry, way gay and way into snuggling here.
I'll be castrated for spilling the t but after sex and on many a night during movies or in winter, the Mistress is a huge smuggler
*goes into hiding*
Just another two cents worth, was this a study of some sort? Was it all gay people or just the men, men being stereotypically the noncuddlers? Do lesbians snuggle more, being female and all? Debra, where do you stand on this :) So far, according to the comments, the gay men cuddle, and the one straight woman (so far) doesn't. Anne Marie hasn't chimed in yet, so we'll see. I've found out over the years, that if I fall asleep watching television while cuddling, I manage to wake up in the middle of having semi-consensual sex. I must've grunted an okay or something :) It's not as rapey as it sounds, really.
Deedles, oh wow it's you!!! I heard on the news that there is a black person who likes country music but I had no idea that it was you! Tehehe! ;)
Bob, well I hope for your husband's sake that you are way gay... lol. Snuggling is the best!
Hey Laddy, feeling a little lonely? Oh sure I'm not surprised, Maddie is a softie, plus someone would have to be nuts not to snuggle you. Your spell check said "Maddie is a huge smuggler" lol of gin? Pastries?
Deedles, you just made me spit out my gum laughing! There's no one else like you in blog land!
Snuggling is necessary.
You do have a point when you mention that it does not meet the image of the hookup. Hookups are most times notoriously devoid of tenderness and/ or sensuality. They’re sexual by nature and slightly disconnected by default.
Sometimes snuggling can be more intimate than a handjob. Snuggling the morning after i have sex for the first time with a man is decisive for me.
Sixpence, even when I had a fwb, we always snuggled after, I need that. He never objected and one time he said, "this is nice", most people want to just jump up and go after.
Snuggling is the best....
Michael, I have a feeling that you are a great snuggler! :)
I am :-)
Michael... stop teasing! Hahaha!
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