Thursday, November 9, 2017

Why are you hear? Looking inward II.

I caught you (me), why are you here Steven (me), what are you looking for? You know that when you are blogging it's because you are not functioning in the real world. You are trying to get back a memory, a feeling, a moment in time but that is in the past. You're looking for that friendship you gained when you first started blogging about wanting to come out. This blog served the purpose but times have changed. Look at the email you received yesterday from an old blog buddy, look how he has moved on to better, much, much better things. Time to try and do the same, every time you post from now on, will be a mark of failure. Your cell is not a buddy, your computer is not a buddy, they can't hug you or help you or have apple crumble with you, what are you doing here. Steven (me) you can't continue to do nothing and then whine about being lonely, your efforts are 100% of the results you will get, either successful or failure. Another thing, pick a better class of people than "you know", if a new friend requires that you be better, then be better and keep them around. If they require nothing of you, then that friendship is worth nothing, and you shouldn't be friends with someone, that you often try to figure out whether they are telling you the truth or not. Everything here is EVERYTHING that you already know and yet you avoid. Coward, you can't hide from me (myself) I know every thought dummy, you are afraid like with Dan, that once someone gets to know you, they will reject you. Big deal, that's life, poop happens. Like everyone else in the world you move on from there, you will never gain any kind of experience from trying nothing.

11 comments:

John Going Gently said...

Have you ever considered some personal counselling?
I had a bout of it in the 1990s and it helped to sort out my head ( not about being gay but being the child of an alcoholic )

Mistress Maddie said...

Yourself is right. If you never get out there, how will you ever know? Scary yes....but after the first few steps it gets easier.

Old Lurker said...

Oh no! Don't leave us!! I'll eat your apple crumble!

Personally I like a few "easy" friendships where people do not put demands on each other. Sometimes it is nice just to hang out without expectations. This has made my life better because I get less emotionally involved when the people I know are making bad life choices.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

John, this is my therapy! Don't worry I'm not losing it, just reminded myself to get back into the real world.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Thank you Steven, and may I also add how much I enjoyed the picture on your blog of you holding the "jack" o'lantern, you are one jalapeno of a guy. Lol.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Mr. OL, you can't get rid of me that easy. I think it's better to have friends that make me want to be a better person but not the kind that would make me feel there are conditions to the friendship.

Ur-spo said...

Keep on writing; it is marvelous therapy.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Wait Dr. Spo, let me just lie down here, now let me tell you how blogging makes me "feel".

Ur-spo said...

You have a marvelous sense of humor
No I won't tell you how you feel - you know that already. You keep on telling us how you feel..

Sooo-this-is-me said...

I hope it helps anyone else with the same thoughts. Although... the thought of other people like me is probably disturbing to most who know me! Lol

Anonymous said...

When you awake in the morning tell yourself," I love you" and when you dream ,your dreams will come true by love.