Getting older is a negative part of life but it's better than the alternative. I am not happy about it but there is nothing I can do about it so everyone say it with me "IT IS, WHAT IT IS"! I will blog later about some of the things that upset me but there are many days where I can't stand to hear one more complaint or judgement because someone got older. Basically, so you got older, big deal, you did nothing wrong, it's not your fault.
I want to talk about some positive moments that happened to me and I feel good about them. I have noticed myself becoming strongly attracted to older men, certain salt and pepper guys, balding guys, men getting that distinguished look to them. I feel really good about this because I and my friends are entering into these phases of our lives. I was worried about being one of those guys that only likes men half their age. Don't get me wrong, a twenty five year old is still hot, just I haven't cornered myself. I feel comfortable with guys around my age or older.
A few weeks ago, I was standing in line at a local coffee shop, when this older man in front of me, guessed who I was because of my resemblance to my father. He is an older brother of someone I know but we had never met before. We were talking for a while and he mentioned that he had just turned 61. The funny thing was the whole time he was talking to me, I couldn't help notice what a fantastic ass the man had. In my head all I could think about was that I would totally tap that! He would say stuff like he just wanted to grab a coffee and I was thinking, I just want to grab you. I bet it's firm, I bet it makes a cute sound when playfully slapped! I WANT to see it in the shower!
Same as an elderly neighbour came here one day and asked me if I would help his nephew fix the elderly man's ceiling. His nephew is probably 55 or 56 years, tall about 6'2, salt and pepper hair. The kind of older guy that looks after himself, eats properly, still plays hockey etc. My job was to hold the ladder steady as he made repairs to the ceiling. It was warm and this guy was wearing only Under Armour shorts and t-shirt. Well.... you absolutely can't believe the body on this guy and the clothes were showing it off perfectly. His legs were hot, the hair still dark, they were connected to the hottest butt on an older man I ever saw in the real world. You could bounce a quarter off that butt! Broad shoulders, nice arms, whatever workout he was doing, was working out! I had to spend all morning holding the ladder and looking up at that body. When I came home, no joking, I was probably as close to a male coming into heat as possible. He affected me for days, I couldn't find any older guy on line that even could come close to the way he made me feel, and when I say feel, I mean in an erotic, lustful, excited way. I think that older man turned me on in a way that I had never felt before. I kept getting crazy hardons every time I thought about helping him. I feel good about this, I think it's a healthy way to see aging, we're still the same people, just with a little rust around the joints, just because we are getting older doesn't mean we can't have a little fun with it. ;)