Ah, something I can chime in on, but don't know it clears things up. I have seen quite a few straight guys and still see one on a regular basis. I finally asked why they like sex with gay guys. The grneral,answer seems to be they don't want to hook up with another woman in fear they will get,attached and want more from them. They also said in most cases, the wife either doesn't like sex and or won't give oral. They also claim to see it as " male bonding" Don't know I buy that.
John, lol yes.... but I don't believe a straight guy would have sex with another guy. I think they are somewhere on the bisexual scale if they "shag" another guy.
Steven, interesting reply. If however we look at it in reverse, would a gay man start sleeping with women if it were easier. I think there is this fear still in a lot of guys to admit that they are not straight. Many still don't understand that it's different shades of grey and that sexuality is not black and white.... not just either straight or gay, there are many levels in between.
OLurker, between you and I "yes" however many in the gay community would call them self haters blah blah blah. Let's just have a bit of fun people. I just feel empathy for them if they are struggling inside, that's all I meant, I'm not judging them.
Dr. Spo, yes you said it, I find it interesting the way guys are so uptight about having sex with another guy. I guess whatever helps them cope with it, is not for me to judge, I just hope they stop worrying about it.
Lived most of my life hidden in the closet and suddenly realized, it's just not working! I started the process of coming out (way back in 2006) and wanted to write about it, hoping to meet people. My blog has shifted a bit now, sometimes gay issues, sometimes every day issues.
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No some me would shag a piece of wood
Ah, something I can chime in on, but don't know it clears things up. I have seen quite a few straight guys and still see one on a regular basis. I finally asked why they like sex with gay guys. The grneral,answer seems to be they don't want to hook up with another woman in fear they will get,attached and want more from them. They also said in most cases, the wife either doesn't like sex and or won't give oral. They also claim to see it as " male bonding" Don't know I buy that.
LOL. I'm with you on this one.
John, lol yes.... but I don't believe a straight guy would have sex with another guy. I think they are somewhere on the bisexual scale if they "shag" another guy.
Steven, interesting reply. If however we look at it in reverse, would a gay man start sleeping with women if it were easier. I think there is this fear still in a lot of guys to admit that they are not straight. Many still don't understand that it's different shades of grey and that sexuality is not black and white.... not just either straight or gay, there are many levels in between.
Walter, and just where have you been mister!?! Lol, nice to see you blogging again. It's always good to take my side!
Life’s complicated enough!
JP
JP, seems people are always trying to make it more complicated and not less for some reason.
Yes, I agree with what your saying. Some of these guys,d ont like labels. But there is a firmly believe levels in between.
Yes, I agree with what your saying. Some of these guys,d ont like labels. But there is a firmly believe levels in between.
The proper term for those people is "hot".
OLurker, between you and I "yes" however many in the gay community would call them self haters blah blah blah. Let's just have a bit of fun people. I just feel empathy for them if they are struggling inside, that's all I meant, I'm not judging them.
Oh the pain
More boxes: more compartments.
pay it no attention.
sex with a man is jolly good fun
Dr. Spo, yes you said it, I find it interesting the way guys are so uptight about having sex with another guy. I guess whatever helps them cope with it, is not for me to judge, I just hope they stop worrying about it.
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