Thursday, July 7, 2016

Some where out there, la la la!

Lying in bed Wednesday morning, thinking to myself (which is always dangerous), I was going over the post I wrote about being alone. I was having a poor little me day that day however I was having an analyzing day Wednesday. The truth is being alone is my fault, a knight in shining armour is not going to come for me, (just maybe men in lab coats), how would he even know I am looking. I concluded that I am not putting out, oh umm sorry, I mean I am not putting myself out there, as in actively looking for a boyfriend. Yup that's the answer and it's the truth, I can't really whine about being alone if I do nothing and worse..... I don't let people know that I am g, ggg-eh, gaaaay. Ok problem solved, I will start doing something about this... next week, oh but then I'm kind of busy this week, the week after I have that thing to attend to, then you know it's the end of the month blah, blah, blah.

5 comments:

Ur-spo said...

May I suggest you put yourself in social situations where you are likely to meet people? Join a square dancing club; volunteer at a clinic or centre. Join the gay (fill in the blank) club. Even if you don't meet Mr. Right you will enjoy the company of others make friends and (most important) enjoy the activity.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

You may suggest that because it sounds like a good plan! There is a nude male yoga class near my work, if someone still wanted to talk to me after that I think it would be a good sign lol. No, just kidding, that's never going to happen.

Laurent Beaulieu said...

I agree with Spo. Join a group, volunteer and you will find gay men like you or who meet your criteria.

Anonymous said...

Join a theatre group, a dining club, a book club, or any other social group which isn't necessarily GAY. You'll meet people who will then introduce you to other people. Maybe the guy in the white coat will be hot?
JP

Sooo-this-is-me said...

My criteria is breathing and can form a sentence or at least half of one, does that sound too desperate Laurent, lol.

JP at least you are thinking positively! :)