Nothing much today, I'm just thinking to myself that I need to do more than just post stuff online, that's not really living my full life as a gayboy lol. I saw mom yesterday and she is doing fine. I really like the new home for her, again when I left I felt good inside, I know that she is being cared for and the staff seems to care about the people they are looking after. There is a difference between doing the job and caring about the people you are doing the job for. Plus with that facility they have everything, medication, doctors on staff, protocols regarding illness and end of life. This place gives me peace of mind. It also gives me permission to start my life now, I can relax and go away for a few days and not worry anymore, my sister can step in and we are on the same page regarding decisions. I think my sister said it best the other day, she said, "I feel mom is home now".
I have to figure out some things to do, fun wise, gay wise that suit me. What I would enjoy now is not the same as twenty years ago (when I was fifteen)? Some things are the same, it's just that I need to be in bed by one or take a nap during the day, lol. Just kidding... sort of :/
Anyway I was thinking that I'm neglecting my sisters, the other half of the "mo" crowd, the L-word bunch, wait does that mean that someone who is a lesbian is an L-mo? Oh man am I ever going to push that on my lesbian friends... who will no doubt do that shoulder punch thing... ouch!
I saw this clip last night of Wanda Sykes, I think she is funny, I have been a fan for years, she usually lights up any room she is in. Oddly enough I was not aware that she is gay and married to a woman from France, I only found out a couple of years ago. I hope you enjoy this clip of her being interviewed by Stephen Colbert.
22 comments:
I love Wanda Sykes! I also think that every blogger should take Wednesday off from posting. It is, after all, hump day. I'm sure more interesting things can be found to do.
I like her. I forget how much I like her until I see her accidentally on something. I think I'll go watch her netflix thing now.
I am so glad that your mom's new home is working out well. Is the new place really out of your way going home from work?
As for activities: it is time to go out and do some volunteering. There is lots happening in Ottawa, and probably even some stuff closer to home. Alternatively, you could take up knitting and keep lonely Miami bachelors company. I agree that it is important to be doing stuff offline.
Deedles... now you tell me! I'm off today so I'm doing laundry, does that count? ;)
Harry, I'm the same way sometimes but I know that whenever I see her... I'm going to be laughing soon!
Lurker, it's not really inconvenient and it has open ended visiting hours so I can go early or late. It is fifty percent closer so easier to go in case of a problem.
Yay for your mom. The change was food, no?
And now it’s YOU who’s reading my mind! I’m planning on a post about her special! I’ll have to mention you 🤓
XoXo
yeah, you need a gaycation! come down to philly and visit mistress maddie and me!
GAH! Good. Not food. Damn you, phone.
Oh and if you’re doing a gaycation, you need to come to Chi. I’ll show you boystown 😎😎
You should watch Wanda's Netflix special. It's really good.
I’m glad your mind is put to rest. Enjoy yourself - you deserve it.
JP
UFOs are like the French. That kind of insight you can ONLY get from a lesbian.
Glad your mother is in a good place.
Wanda is fabulous, but more importantly, let me know how the girls react when you call them L-mo's.
Sixpence, thanks for the mom thought, it was very food of you! :D
Yes you have to mention me or my blog lawyers will be contacting your blog lawyers.
Anne Marie, I'm so using that word, gaycation lol! I think you guys would wear me out! ;)
Sixpence, no problem, I knew you meant good lol, same with my phone, often changes my meaning... aaah! I have so many invitations, I guess I must seem trustworthy... muahahaha!
Richard, I am going to try, thanks for the recommendation.
JP, thank you friend, and yes I'm looking for something relaxing to do.
Debra, I did not know that lol! I'm not going to call you an L-mo, I think you are the only lesbian reader I have, all the other ladies are straight... but I don't judge them for that, love is love and it's not my business who they love. :D
Thank you Michael, it's like a weight being lifted off my shoulders.
Bob, oh I'm not that stupid, most of the lesbians I know either play hockey or used to, so no way am I saying that! Lol
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