Saturday, March 7, 2020

Yes, it's a miracle, I'm dating.


 Time to let the cat out of the bag as they say. Yes I'm seeing someone, I have met a guy I like. I didn't want to blog about it because I wasn't sure how this was going to go. I've had my share of disasters and I just didn't want people feeling sorry for me if it ended after one or two dates.  It feels very "right" I have no confusion regarding this man, there are no thoughts of "do I really like him" or "am I settling for him" none of those thoughts cross my mind, more like "holy cow, is this real"? I'm completely a wreck before each date because this guy does an absolute number on me by just being around me. I'm enjoying these moments, I never thought I would feel this way again.

 I will give you more details later, I'm going to a party this afternoon at my neighbour's house so for now I'm just letting you people know. This all came with my usual Mr Bean moments however, like me on my way to our first official date and "POW" a flat tire on a cold, wind blown day. I called him to cancel and then after I hung up I said many many many many many many many very very dirty filthy bad words... many of them. At other times we would have snow storm warnings and we would have to cancel our plans. In frustration I would call him and we would talk for hours, it would feel like minutes but it would be hours.

 I have to mention another Mr Bean moment that happened last night, it was awkward for a few minutes but fortunately sent us into giggles. He's a really sweet guy and decent. I thanked him yesterday for making this experience romantic and not cheap like a hook up. I want to feel comfortable going forward by making sure I'm not bringing anything "unwanted" into this relationship, yesterday I was looking up the hours of sexual health clinics to get tested. Many of the clinics have in the titles M4M on the websites. Later that evening after dinner, he suggested we go to a museum, this way we could do something where we get to be together and casually chat. I was thinking that museums close at 5:00 and since he had forgot his phone at home we were using my phone. As we typed in "m" for museums, my phone being ever so helpful, began opening up sites like "m4m SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES!!! Male SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS!!! Men HAVING SEX with men, PERVERTED DISEASED SEX FREAKS NAMED STEVE!!!!!

 There was a moment of silence, I began to explain and he started laughing, he said not to worry that he thinks it's a good idea. Well at least it did open the door to that discussion on the way home and he was pretty open about everything. I think that's a healthy way to start off.

 We are going to spend Sunday together, it's supposed to be a beautiful day. I'm just going to enjoy this part of my journey, it's only new, everyone has their quirks, I have to figure out his (plus minimize mine lol). I'm trying not to worry about a week from now, a month from now, a year from now. Have a good Saturday folks! :D

46 comments:

anne marie in philly said...

YAYZ! day to day, one at a time. enjoy your sunday with "special guy"!

Deedles said...

Perverted Diseased Sex Freaks Named Steve would be a nifty new title for this blog!!! I think I just coughed up another lung! This made me so very happy for you Snugglemuffin! There are probably several "I told you sos" hanging over your head right now :)

Hot guys said...

Oh awesome, glad to hear you're dating and that you're found someone who is worthy. Good for you! :)

Jimmy said...

TOO FUNNY!

Does he break wind in public?

Fingers crossed for you.

JanF said...

This is just lovely and was what I hoped to hear. You have made my day!
I started grinning when I saw the post and haven't stopped.
Best of best wishes.

Bob said...

Take it as it comes. If it's meant to be, it will.Have fun, enjoy, laugh and smile. And above all RELAX!!!!! =)

Debra She Who Seeks said...

What wonderful news! Have fun, enjoy yourself, BE YOURSELF!

RJ said...

I'm happy for you. You deserve the best.

Dave R said...

Congrats! Don't forget to set your clocks back... timing is everything.

Akasha said...

Well it’s good that you didn’t see the flat tire as an omen...

HuntleyBiGuy said...

That’s so amazing Steven. I like your attitude, not that what I think should matter. I know the feeling of being with someone you genuinely feel comfortable with and the giddiness of a new relationship. Take it a day at a time and enjoy the ride.

John Going Gently said...

Thank fuck for that

Ur-spo said...

bravo !!!

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Anne Marie, thank you! : )

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Deedles, maybe I should start a second blog and use that name! Hahaha! Hope you are feeling better, I'm sending you some country boy hugs! ;)

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Thank you Hot Guys, he seems like a keeper!

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Jimmy, no we are still at the stage where we don't fart around each other.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

JanF, thank you for this very sweet comment.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Bob, I'm starting to relax a little. I'm enjoying these moments.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Debra, thank you and yes I'm having fun.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Richard, thank you and I also feel the same about you. Also you should feel extra excited, if I can get someone, then you will have no problem! ;)

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Dave, yes lol, I was prepared before I went to bed.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Akasha, hello and welcome! No the flat tire is a situation that is typical for me, anything that can go wrong at the worst possible moment will... lol.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

HuntleyBiGuy, you seem to be a nice guy and so "too late"... your opinion already matters to me! Thank you for the kind words.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

John, hahaha... took long enough right? Now the blog world can focus on finding a man for you! :D

Sooo-this-is-me said...

Dr Spo, thank you kind sir!
: )

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