tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post8948875243560838614..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: Get Away From Me!Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-51149783002718895142008-03-01T10:30:00.000-05:002008-03-01T10:30:00.000-05:00You're very cute.Timmy Hos has the worst coffee.You're very cute.Timmy Hos has the worst coffee.Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00246080305187265813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-72673119785306281652008-02-29T19:02:00.000-05:002008-02-29T19:02:00.000-05:00It was tough for us to get used to sleeping in the...It was tough for us to get used to sleeping in the same bed. Now he can't sleep at all if I'm not here. I have some trouble with it myself if I'm in our bed alone. I don't have too much trouble sleeping alone if I'm in a guest bed or hotel room or on a sofa somewhere. Good luck honey! How do you feel about naps?<BR/><BR/>And what Birdie said.Javahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17377033663576614925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-58428792303809214622008-02-29T00:23:00.000-05:002008-02-29T00:23:00.000-05:00It is a good thing--not the lack of sleep, but the...It is a good thing--not the lack of sleep, but the being near someone.johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16755439918003129391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-40821800101623287482008-02-28T22:26:00.000-05:002008-02-28T22:26:00.000-05:00complain all you want, but just remember this is w...complain all you want, but just remember this is what you have been wanting all along.<BR/><BR/>i doubt that the grass looks any greener on other side. you know. when you were single.<BR/><BR/>so learn to drink so coffee in the morning! it could definitely be worse.<BR/><BR/>;-}danny/ink2metalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11725921328440113665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-17850366268149943332008-02-28T19:53:00.000-05:002008-02-28T19:53:00.000-05:00Hmm, maybe you'll get used to it after a while. Bu...Hmm, maybe you'll get used to it after a while. But like the others said, maybe you can talk to him about it. <BR/><BR/>I don't even know if I cuddle with the bf during my sleep or not. I'm such a heavy sleeper I usually don't know what goes on at night.Topherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00735026992863330006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-83616077783903860242008-02-28T17:59:00.000-05:002008-02-28T17:59:00.000-05:00There's a blogger that I read who is married and e...There's a blogger that I read who is married and each of them have their own apartments. Not just separate beds or separate rooms but separate apartments. If I remember correctly, one guy is a morning person and noisy and the other guy is the complete opposite. I found that extraordinary but hey, they found out what works for them though. I'm sure you'll get to your common ground too. But keep trying with that <A HREF="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0eStJlnNKo" REL="nofollow">Hug 'n Roll</A>.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00127042364846361909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-6891590691771227742008-02-28T15:15:00.000-05:002008-02-28T15:15:00.000-05:00I am not good at sleeping besides someone either. ...I am not good at sleeping besides someone either. I always sleep much better alone, in my own bed. <BR/><BR/>Then again, of course it is cosy to sleep besides my boyfriend as well!Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02173299361850493892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-38300143628651857742008-02-28T15:02:00.000-05:002008-02-28T15:02:00.000-05:00I can relate. I like the cuddling but when it's s...I can relate. I like the cuddling but when it's sleepy time then don't be touching me 'cause I will immediately awake. <BR/><BR/>Like others have said, you should talk to Dave about it. Your relationship can only survive and grow if you openly communicate.donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06879147983682175313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-35054460121222074822008-02-28T14:55:00.000-05:002008-02-28T14:55:00.000-05:00I echo other comments. TALK! Talk and communicat...I echo other comments. TALK! Talk and communicate. Take the risks. You are doing the right things!Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-55593280651013437462008-02-28T11:29:00.000-05:002008-02-28T11:29:00.000-05:00For a 'beginner' you do great. Talk about it, find...For a 'beginner' you do great. Talk about it, find your and Dave's place in your universe.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-57867848251958427362008-02-28T11:16:00.000-05:002008-02-28T11:16:00.000-05:00I've been with hubby for 36 years, and he can't sl...I've been with hubby for 36 years, and he can't sleep with me touching him, either. He is such a light sleeper that almost anything wakes him up. He even uses a "white noise" machine to mask night sounds. I'll sleep through anything. And I'm the one who wants some part of us touching; I want to be tangled up with him in bed. Clearly, this could be a problem. For many years, it was.<BR/><BR/>Each of us has a "currency" of love. That is, how do you perceive love? I feel loved with touching. He feels loved with space when it's time to sleep. For a long time, I went to sleep feeling hurt when he turned away. But we have learned (with help) to give each other loving by cuddling until we are nearly asleep. I get all the tangled touching I want and need, and then I turn away and fall asleep. <BR/><BR/>I think it's important that I am the one turning away; it becomes my decision to end the touching that I find so important. And in doing so, I show him how much I care for his needs. Because we have talked about it and understand that we are meeting each other's needs, no hurt feelings go unexpressed. And we both get a good night's sleep.<BR/><BR/>You will find there is a dance of give-and-take that never ends in a close relationship. The beginning is the hardest time as you discover conflicts in needs, lifestyle, and habits. Keep talking!Birdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12852713057094279347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-72762884466775457792008-02-28T10:54:00.000-05:002008-02-28T10:54:00.000-05:00I thought I'd drop by to catch up!Wow, think about...I thought I'd drop by to catch up!<BR/><BR/>Wow, think about it, Steven! Who would have though when I first found your blog that you would be complaining about lack of sleep because a big ol' handsome man wants you in his arms all night.<BR/><BR/>That's a wonderful thing to find irksome, isn't it?Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11041374614464589328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-30428317419466836752008-02-28T10:34:00.000-05:002008-02-28T10:34:00.000-05:00What about snoring? That's the worst for a light ...What about snoring? That's the worst for a light sleeper.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14985551962784298632noreply@blogger.com