tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post7634606514803201225..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: The wrong team.Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-29231300864479186372018-02-05T08:56:26.765-05:002018-02-05T08:56:26.765-05:00Cheer up, we all love you. Have you ever heard the...Cheer up, we all love you. Have you ever heard the song, "Little girl blue"? We all get blue.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-85788750746499451802017-10-21T22:06:03.221-04:002017-10-21T22:06:03.221-04:00Michael 54, thanks for your comment, I wasn't ...Michael 54, thanks for your comment, I wasn't sure how people would react to this post, I was a little worried to be honest. I appreciate the support.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-87639371543393352322017-10-21T22:02:49.493-04:002017-10-21T22:02:49.493-04:00JP, I almost always feel like that, I can't sh...JP, I almost always feel like that, I can't shake it. Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-13038337075662910532017-10-21T21:54:10.736-04:002017-10-21T21:54:10.736-04:00Dr. Spo..... whew!!! I really needed to hear that,...Dr. Spo..... whew!!! I really needed to hear that, I wasn't sure what you would say if you commented but I had to get it off my chest. Thank you.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-18509777396592432302017-10-21T20:51:10.468-04:002017-10-21T20:51:10.468-04:00No need for apologies. This is your blog and you ...No need for apologies. This is your blog and you have a right to post and say what ever you want. I totally and completely understand your words. I frequently wish that my life would be different too. The white picket fence thing has its allure, but I went that route, and it is not all it is cracked up to be. It is hard to be different, and to wonder what it would be like to be "just like everyone else." But the truth of the matter is that we all are different in our own ways. Kudos to you for your post. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-92094950619842826542017-10-21T18:35:18.680-04:002017-10-21T18:35:18.680-04:00I’m sorry you feel like that - regardless of sexua...I’m sorry you feel like that - regardless of sexuality - that you are against the grain, as you say. I’ve never felt like that myself. I’ve always felt that everybody else was against the grain. I have a habit of turning things around like that. I’m no shrink but I suppose I got done with negativity. That I wasn’t good enough. I’m lucky, I met a guy who appreciates the fact that I kick arse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-14214637872043673882017-10-21T16:12:54.009-04:002017-10-21T16:12:54.009-04:00Good for you!
One of the taboos in the gay communi...Good for you!<br />One of the taboos in the gay community is admitting ambivalence or (worse!) dissatisfaction with one's homosexuality. We are all supposed to love it; admitting anything less makes the Right pounce with their 'see! see!" convictions all gay people are really like that after all. So please don't let anyone gay or straight put you into a box. <br />After all we are mostly left alone when we admit disappointment in our height or eye colour or size of our breasts etc. Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-40373707828383294082017-10-20T15:19:50.276-04:002017-10-20T15:19:50.276-04:00Steven, no I'm not confused, I am gay, I have ...Steven, no I'm not confused, I am gay, I have known since a young age as well. I have no attraction to women at all. I have had two relationships with men and an FWB. I don't really know what to say, I don't think being gay is bad, I just wish I wasn't. Maybe you're right, maybe I just need to find the right guy, love tends to wipe away negative thoughts.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-648799797656225932017-10-20T15:08:55.943-04:002017-10-20T15:08:55.943-04:00I have thought about counseling. Maybe because I a...I have thought about counseling. Maybe because I am the type to think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, could be part of the problem. Life just seems easier for my straight friends.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-64519306753094469902017-10-19T19:17:08.313-04:002017-10-19T19:17:08.313-04:00Well. I don't really have any advice, but what...Well. I don't really have any advice, but what make you think you are gay in the first place? Not to pry, but have you had sexual relations with men?If so how did you feel? And when you self pleasure do you fantasize of men or woman? You could be bi. Some argue about bi, but I have a male friend who is equally attracted to men as he is ladies. And I really do believe he is bi, and not using it as an excuse like some use it not to use the Gay Label. I knew very strongly I was gay by 11 or 12, and before that even knew I was different. But to me gay is normal. <br /><br />Of course you could be a degree of gay. You can still be a husband and father with kids the house and the life you want. Just need to find the right guy.Mistress Maddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098940220513091207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-82239297867407335132017-10-19T15:59:30.128-04:002017-10-19T15:59:30.128-04:00Not being a " fit" may mean more about y...Not being a " fit" may mean more about you than it does about the gay you.<br />Seriously have you considered some counselling? <br />Having a forum that is safe to explore this may be useful to youJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.com