tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post6476054098623116880..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: Dirty Boy!Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-79650263338377923852009-05-10T19:34:00.000-04:002009-05-10T19:34:00.000-04:00I think a lot of people have these kind of thought...I think a lot of people have these kind of thoughts....fantasy is one of the mind's greatest aspects.RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-22356820099563562862009-03-12T12:36:00.000-04:002009-03-12T12:36:00.000-04:00Joe: True and I still have work to do on how I fee...Joe: True and I still have work to do on how I feel sometimes about being gay.<BR/><BR/>Jay: Yes I agree that I used to feel that way also, that I would really put in an effort into turning straight. However the odd about this kid for me is I felt like that was when I was hiding, this kid is comfortable enough with being gay that he went on TV, had boyfriends, gay friends and even dressed the part of a twink. He is still young, he will see soon enough.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-64595266556506343162009-03-12T11:01:00.000-04:002009-03-12T11:01:00.000-04:00@StevenI think I used be like that kid, a bit. It'...@Steven<BR/>I think I used be like that kid, a bit. It's just uh...I don't know how to word it, the unspeakable, complicated feeling when you hear someone actually spell out the itch that revolved on your mind for so long. <BR/><BR/>I kind of passed that phase now and needless to say I find lots of your words echo me so much.Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12066950303097613965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-61076357762426963272009-03-11T21:54:00.000-04:002009-03-11T21:54:00.000-04:00Self-loathing and being gay can go hand in hand. ...Self-loathing and being gay can go hand in hand. Most of us have experienced (and still do) shame in who and what we are. Self-destructive behavior is hidden in many guises.<BR/><BR/>"Using" another person is wrong. That just ain't what we're supposed to be up to. Any of us. That kind of thing knows no bounds of gay or straight.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for your honesty! We've all got auite a journey ahead of us.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-55190093130536045832009-03-11T10:55:00.000-04:002009-03-11T10:55:00.000-04:00Birdie: I try to be honest with who I am because s...Birdie: I try to be honest with who I am because silly me pretended to be somebody else for years, the worse thing for me would be to make someone feel not welcomed to this blog.<BR/><BR/>Java: You don't sound judgemental to me, well maybe to a guy like him you would but I understand what you are saying.<BR/><BR/>Jay: Yes I saw that clip last week, it is a total joke. I think he did it for attention, either that or he really needs to work out where he is going. Any way don't watch Tyra, it will melt your brain.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-74886568423473642752009-03-11T09:24:00.000-04:002009-03-11T09:24:00.000-04:00All about disorientation... You might wanna check ...All about disorientation... You might wanna check this out.<BR/><BR/>http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2009/02/self-hating-gay-on-tyra-ill-be-straight-by-30/Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12066950303097613965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-9511128839774769032009-03-10T19:04:00.000-04:002009-03-10T19:04:00.000-04:00Yes, what Birdie said. Also, I don't think you are...Yes, what Birdie said. <BR/>Also, I don't think you are being judgmental toward him. I think you made the right choice for you in the situation, and I understand your sense of sorrow, I guess, for him. Sorrow for him that he doesn't feel any more respect for himself. <BR/><BR/>And now I hope I don't sound judgmental!Javahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17377033663576614925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-34178864058281753922009-03-10T17:29:00.000-04:002009-03-10T17:29:00.000-04:00Your honesty is one of your great character streng...Your honesty is one of your great character strengths and one of the reasons I like your blog so much. It is not unreasonable to expect honesty in any relationship and to avoid those whom you cannot trust. Those who are dishonest about their motives are destructive, no matter what their orientation is. You are fiercely protective of vulnerable people, and I hope you continue to act on that instinct.Birdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12852713057094279347noreply@blogger.com