tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post3186280156663562491..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: Shoulder weight lifted.Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-20673233339034822292019-09-15T21:38:14.513-04:002019-09-15T21:38:14.513-04:00Dr Spo, thank you.. and as for the commenters, yup...Dr Spo, thank you.. and as for the commenters, yup they might be a scruffy bunch but they're the best! :DSooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-34027652852212232372019-09-15T20:41:27.667-04:002019-09-15T20:41:27.667-04:00I too am glad for your news; I am always glad to r...I too am glad for your news; I am always glad to read the comments you get to see you have good support. Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-41186172820897982952019-09-15T09:48:15.138-04:002019-09-15T09:48:15.138-04:00Sixpence, thank you, if only I was that level head...Sixpence, thank you, if only I was that level headed in the real world... lol!Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-49326852502484484242019-09-15T09:23:17.220-04:002019-09-15T09:23:17.220-04:00Awww
You’re such a sweet, thoughtful man. You’re r...Awww<br />You’re such a sweet, thoughtful man. You’re right. Keeping calm and carrying on is the right thing to do.<br /><br />XoXo Sixpence Notthewiserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11230453585589265578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-8653117088574218392019-09-14T23:16:09.307-04:002019-09-14T23:16:09.307-04:00Lurky, hey gurlfriend! I love it when you are thou...Lurky, hey gurlfriend! I love it when you are thoughtful like this. Yes I do realize that I'm doing the best I can, I just feel that I'm failing but I know deep down I'm not, if that makes sense.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-31894408017057885012019-09-14T23:11:44.134-04:002019-09-14T23:11:44.134-04:00Anne Marie, I in the process of those talks as wel...Anne Marie, I in the process of those talks as well. My instructions are to send me to the vet and have me put down.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-49628285934174135262019-09-14T23:09:36.795-04:002019-09-14T23:09:36.795-04:00Richard, a huge relief is a good way of describing...Richard, a huge relief is a good way of describing it!Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-35427022678208723942019-09-14T23:08:30.845-04:002019-09-14T23:08:30.845-04:00Dave, I feel the same way but when a doctor says, ...Dave, I feel the same way but when a doctor says, "your mom is about to die, what do you want us to do"? It's a heavy question.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-70396018607316801192019-09-14T23:05:47.230-04:002019-09-14T23:05:47.230-04:00Bob, all plans seem great until they have to go in...Bob, all plans seem great until they have to go into action. I need to remember to keep calm and carry on.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-87841665782053774532019-09-14T23:04:16.292-04:002019-09-14T23:04:16.292-04:00John, I think I understand what you are saying but...John, I think I understand what you are saying but not 100%. LolSooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-7816591728506311022019-09-14T21:23:35.438-04:002019-09-14T21:23:35.438-04:00I am also glad you are thinking about this in adva...I am also glad you are thinking about this in advance. But regardless of which choice you made, it would not have been "all your fault" even if your mom had died. You are doing a good job under difficult circumstances, and I hope you are able to recognise that.Old Lurkerhttps://oldlurker974.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-75287032962632774032019-09-14T18:48:05.740-04:002019-09-14T18:48:05.740-04:00spouse and I have written advance directives - no ...spouse and I have written advance directives - no extra-ordinary means to "save life" (whatever the fuck that quality of life would be). wish our state had physician-assisted suicide rules in place.anne marie in phillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11765140782182605141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-42703228027959165052019-09-14T18:35:02.340-04:002019-09-14T18:35:02.340-04:00That's great news. I'm sure it's a hug...That's great news. I'm sure it's a huge relief.Richardhttps://rjjs8878.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-76284374468524569492019-09-14T17:30:47.689-04:002019-09-14T17:30:47.689-04:00When my Mom died last year at 85, her dementia had...When my Mom died last year at 85, her dementia had reached a point where she would tell me "I don't remember Grace, or John," her brother and sister, or she'd say "I don't remember my Mom." Sometimes it not about whether your decision is right or wrong in regard to our parents, sometimes it's about their dignity. Who are we if we don't have our memories?Dave Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10429379083970699093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-63229101608563035202019-09-14T14:04:31.236-04:002019-09-14T14:04:31.236-04:00Sounds like you'remaking a good plan.
xoxoSounds like you'remaking a good plan.<br />xoxoBobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15302478126147924237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-32411814183605454002019-09-14T12:03:13.802-04:002019-09-14T12:03:13.802-04:00I'm glad, too much can be done but too little ...I'm glad, too much can be done but too little thought about should it be done, is in fact done lolJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.com