tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post1492246421949552638..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: Feeling Resentful.Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-2635272707534582572019-02-17T09:11:51.092-05:002019-02-17T09:11:51.092-05:00Dr Spo, I started to say no, people are not going ...Dr Spo, I started to say no, people are not going to like it but to bad.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-3763654633249073732019-02-16T21:24:08.120-05:002019-02-16T21:24:08.120-05:00Ann Marie is closest to the best: saying "no ...Ann Marie is closest to the best: saying "no thank you " without detail or explanations is quite enough and saves breath. <br />Sometimes this needs to be repeated without the thank you. Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-5983021838015588452019-02-16T20:53:12.127-05:002019-02-16T20:53:12.127-05:00Richard, you want me to lie to church people!!! Lo...Richard, you want me to lie to church people!!! LolSooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-26426837831039330732019-02-16T18:56:33.372-05:002019-02-16T18:56:33.372-05:00Tell them you're recovering from food poisonin...Tell them you're recovering from food poisoning and you're not back to 100%.Richardhttps://rjjs8878.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-82147312095086942262019-02-16T18:18:06.047-05:002019-02-16T18:18:06.047-05:00Anne Marie, going forward I think I will try your ...Anne Marie, going forward I think I will try your suggestion of "no" at first, if they insist then I will try one of the others or maybe all of them! :D hahaha!Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-77710763359656477232019-02-16T18:16:01.636-05:002019-02-16T18:16:01.636-05:00John, can I show them some teeth? Grrrr!John, can I show them some teeth? Grrrr!Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-89286709603418346842019-02-16T18:15:10.264-05:002019-02-16T18:15:10.264-05:00Leanna, I didn't go, I have enough of my own c...Leanna, I didn't go, I have enough of my own chores to do.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-86673361050087197512019-02-16T18:14:07.755-05:002019-02-16T18:14:07.755-05:00Debra, just say no to drugs... umm I mean chores!Debra, just say no to drugs... umm I mean chores!Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-56449523274776580952019-02-16T18:11:16.497-05:002019-02-16T18:11:16.497-05:00Old Lurker, awwwe I feel bad for you, want to shov...Old Lurker, awwwe I feel bad for you, want to shovel snow from my roof? I agree, I am working on not being taken advantage of... well unless it's the fun kind with a hot guy in undies but that happening to me is about the same as happening to you so... ;pSooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-71242368418594420322019-02-16T18:07:02.153-05:002019-02-16T18:07:02.153-05:00Bob, lol someone good suggestions. Trouble with nu...Bob, lol someone good suggestions. Trouble with number one is the congregation is mostly elderly women. I love number two and number three actually doesn't apply, the people who ask are generally the people who end up doing all the work themselves and are good people, that's why it's hard to say no sometimes.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-1989081786045975492019-02-16T18:02:58.193-05:002019-02-16T18:02:58.193-05:00Krayolalris, hello! I was actually thinking along ...Krayolalris, hello! I was actually thinking along those lines, if I got hurt they are not going to support me while I'm off work! Plus they would be so made if I went after their insurance.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-24608757474845227532019-02-16T18:00:20.150-05:002019-02-16T18:00:20.150-05:00Sixpence, yes it seems anyone who starts thinking ...Sixpence, yes it seems anyone who starts thinking about something not fun, my name pops into their head... lol.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-40668512904606996122019-02-16T14:43:45.884-05:002019-02-16T14:43:45.884-05:00No with a smile .......No with a smile .......John Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-48478015537179088882019-02-16T14:06:55.675-05:002019-02-16T14:06:55.675-05:00Debra said it. Just say no. Tell them to hire some...Debra said it. Just say no. Tell them to hire someone. You don't have to do anything you don't feel like doing. Just say nope, hell no, not without a note. Stop letting them take advantage of you.Leannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02313664441343901006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-25781825752562957072019-02-16T12:33:48.536-05:002019-02-16T12:33:48.536-05:00You're absolutely right -- the cure for resent...You're absolutely right -- the cure for resentment is to simply say "No, I'm not available right now." LOL @ Bob!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-90547217329241071682019-02-16T12:30:17.227-05:002019-02-16T12:30:17.227-05:00Somebody has a case of the Mondays!
Nobody invite...Somebody has a case of the Mondays!<br /><br />Nobody invites ME to shovel church roofs or clean out sports stadiums. I guess you are just a popular guy. <br /><br />I think it is admirable that you help out with these kinds of cleanups. I understand that it feels bad to be taken advantage of, but maybe that is the side of the equation to focus on?Old Lurkerhttps://oldlurker974.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-21394263807260826732019-02-16T11:39:44.196-05:002019-02-16T11:39:44.196-05:00"Sorry, but I do attend this church. Perhaps ..."Sorry, but I do attend this church. Perhaps you should call your congregants."<br /><br />Or ...<br /><br />"Let's do my roof and sidewalk and driveway first and then i'll be glad to help."<br /><br />Or ...<br /><br />"Not today, Satan."Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15302478126147924237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-81165821529502377022019-02-16T11:30:00.588-05:002019-02-16T11:30:00.588-05:00When you say no, remind them that it’s in their be...When you say no, remind them that it’s in their best interest not to use someone who might have an accident and get hurt (thereby needing to sue for medical costs and damages).krayolakrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05809717210520104821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-91478696500846154922019-02-16T11:20:44.050-05:002019-02-16T11:20:44.050-05:00Soooooo they don’t invite you to the fun stuff goi...Soooooo they don’t invite you to the fun stuff going on but they do remember your number when there’s snow to be shoveled off a churche’s ROOF? <br />Sorry but no. That’s just rude. I understand it’s not a popularity contest, but I agree with you: new ways to say ‘thank you, next’ are in order.<br /><br />XoXo Sixpence Notthewiserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11230453585589265578noreply@blogger.com