tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post7898870203683061061..comments2024-02-24T15:33:47.064-05:00Comments on Sooo-this-is-me: When I became, "that guy".Sooo-this-is-mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-74759827800140255162018-07-29T10:34:22.851-04:002018-07-29T10:34:22.851-04:00Michael, I know it's a bad road to go down but...Michael, I know it's a bad road to go down but sometimes I find myself looking back. I used to think that I would "win in life" if I died alone but had tricked everyone into believing that I was straight, it looks like a really pathetic goal in life now.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-61460239561567767382018-07-28T19:08:48.700-04:002018-07-28T19:08:48.700-04:00Steven,
I agree with all of the other comments. ...Steven,<br />I agree with all of the other comments. Christina said it best when she said each day is a new day. I understand how you feel because sometimes I feel the exact same way. The coulda, shoulda, woulda feelings. I spent too many years in a painful marriage, but I did get two children that I don't know how I would live without. Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12490988837607883653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-52407913344378965562018-07-28T09:44:09.982-04:002018-07-28T09:44:09.982-04:00Deedles, I just realized why we click so well... l...Deedles, I just realized why we click so well... lol. Plus you have a wicked sense of humo(u)r that I love. ;pSooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-87634566089057352982018-07-28T09:41:02.408-04:002018-07-28T09:41:02.408-04:00Maddie, I can see that working for you, I think ev...Maddie, I can see that working for you, I think everyone is different and your lifestyle is the best fit for you. I also notice you have a large network of friends and are very social, I think that is also part of my problem, I'm not social enough. I like being on my own as well but I also don't like being on my own, I think as we get older we get set in our ways and don't like to change those ways.<br />I promise to scrub behind his ears! :-)Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-8820738451220249812018-07-28T09:33:29.426-04:002018-07-28T09:33:29.426-04:00John Michael, I suppose if my last relationship ha...John Michael, I suppose if my last relationship had lasted, I wouldn't be feeling this way. Sometimes I look around and see many of my friends who are single again and I realize, they are in the same spot as I am now.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-83641101977652648932018-07-28T09:30:19.047-04:002018-07-28T09:30:19.047-04:00RJ, you are right, I was having a moment of negati...RJ, you are right, I was having a moment of negative reflection.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-69495375932204384972018-07-28T09:27:18.026-04:002018-07-28T09:27:18.026-04:00Deedles, I'm opening the package up now, ahh h...Deedles, I'm opening the package up now, ahh here's one that fits just perfectly.... nice comfy Granny hug... ahhhhhh, there all better! Look both ways made me snicker, your mission was accomplished.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-12349162697086460552018-07-28T09:23:39.940-04:002018-07-28T09:23:39.940-04:00Walter, that's kind what you are saying, I jus...Walter, that's kind what you are saying, I just wish other gay men here could see that as well lol.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-23641304095063919152018-07-28T09:21:41.665-04:002018-07-28T09:21:41.665-04:00Christina.... holy moly you are a sweet person! :)...Christina.... holy moly you are a sweet person! :) That was a great comment, you are correct, I try not to look back but sometimes I can't help it. It's true though, I bet many people have regrets and we never know how life will turn out.Sooo-this-is-mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02001864616415319712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-21996170667661111952018-07-28T08:35:08.672-04:002018-07-28T08:35:08.672-04:00Maddie, considering that I'm an anti-social re...Maddie, considering that I'm an anti-social reclusive who enjoys being alone, this made me sad. Weird huh? I guess the key word here is independent. I've never been independent, but it suits me. I'm giving you warm hugs just cuz. Deedleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17220174067034720943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-16445523491199598212018-07-28T05:42:58.671-04:002018-07-28T05:42:58.671-04:00A great post and I love your way with words here. ...A great post and I love your way with words here. Life for me is not better shared with someone. Odd right. After two long term relationships, I oddly find I function better and soar more when single. Since then I like the balance I finally have with my life. I think my view stems from being so social and being around people so often, I like my own time alone at home and a do treasure my alone time, and could at times easily become reclusive. That why things with the Lad and Warbucks work at well. Since they don't live nearby, It gives me just enough time to date them and have nookie, but keep my life to me. It's a bit selfish, but I.m so scary independent.<br /><br />On a side note...the Lad enjoys baths.Mistress Maddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098940220513091207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-13841423990670766792018-07-27T23:07:33.984-04:002018-07-27T23:07:33.984-04:00Life is never wasted. Loneliness sucks. But you do...Life is never wasted. Loneliness sucks. But you do have friends and you do have a sister.<br /><br />Like you, I came out late. And I fell into a relationship late too. I think to myself, I could have done things differently. But I also think there were those reasons that I didn't (I know sooo cliche). <br /><br />Time slips away, but time also gives back. It really does. When you find where you are suppose to be, I do believe that time gives back. JohnMichaelhttp://www.openawindow.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-84578369856838463012018-07-27T09:30:19.779-04:002018-07-27T09:30:19.779-04:00I have to agree with the other commenters. You can...I have to agree with the other commenters. You can't change the past but you can direct the future.rjjs8878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-53116013414033332262018-07-27T09:21:20.341-04:002018-07-27T09:21:20.341-04:00I can't say it any better than Christina and W...I can't say it any better than Christina and Walter, and I have this incredible urge to hug them both!<br />Here's my pithy (I said PITHY!) little tidbit. Don't dwell on what ifs, look forward to what's next. Learn from the past, live in the present and look ahead to the future. Look both ways before crossing the street. Too many?<br /><br />I'm sending you a new shipment of Granny hugs. No need to use them sparingly.Deedleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17220174067034720943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-64526336216165685422018-07-27T08:22:42.406-04:002018-07-27T08:22:42.406-04:00You're that guy I'd like to sit next to du...You're that guy I'd like to sit next to during a thunderstorm, and enjoy nature with. You're that guy who is too good for so many others out there. That guy who when he finds the right one will make a home instead of a house. You're that guy who is the good friend everyone wishes for, and that guy who's fun to be around with. You're that guy who thinks, is sensitive, and notices the important things. You're that guy who is funny, quirky, and handsome. You're that guy I'd be happy to know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167118023573797856.post-14286922220518287512018-07-27T01:31:01.086-04:002018-07-27T01:31:01.086-04:00If a young guy sat across from you at your kitchen...If a young guy sat across from you at your kitchen table and told you this story as if it was his, what would you do?<br />It's my guess you'd listen, offer support and comfort.<br /><br />Most people have regrets, Steven. Either doing something, not doing something. Wasting chances, time, resources. Being mean, gullible,inpatient. The list goes on. In my opinion there's nothing to be gained from looking backwards. Always look forwards if you can, make it a conscious effort.<br /><br />Be your own best friend, don't beat yourself up.<br /><br />You've got the rest of your life to be the complete opposite of "That guy"<br /><br />Life doesn't always turn out how we think it should but it's a process, not a product and it is constantly changing and evolving. <br />None of us knows what's around the corner and thank goodness for that.<br /><br /><br />Tomorrow is a brand new day, all shiny and clean. Go get 'em!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093533351238991113noreply@blogger.com